Welcome mate! This is loads better and Rattfink is the bees knees. (I'm a sarcastic arse.)
Like Mac said, look around and you'll see the difference.
One immediate thing is the ads you do see are those who sponsor the site and those images do not have a great impact on the sites performance.
Another is we are like a big "coed" Xterra family with both genders and generations represented in one place.