Sorry if jumped the gun on you guys. To me, "lock it down" means "lock it down permanently."
Still, my advice, from personal experience, and observing all of my close friends, is don't get married until you're at least 25-27 years old. I think it's a rare person that has found themselves before that age, and if you don't yet know who you are, you can't expect anyone else to. I nearly got married at 18, to a girl I recognize now as being all kinds of wrong for me, and nearly tossed a scholarship and any number of career chances away to be with her. By far the stupidest mistake I would have ever made in my life, and I look back now wondering where in the hell I found the wisdom at that age to break it off and go our separate ways.
Anyway, now that I've gotten that off my chest, let's resume this thread of XN citizen's faces!
Still, my advice, from personal experience, and observing all of my close friends, is don't get married until you're at least 25-27 years old. I think it's a rare person that has found themselves before that age, and if you don't yet know who you are, you can't expect anyone else to. I nearly got married at 18, to a girl I recognize now as being all kinds of wrong for me, and nearly tossed a scholarship and any number of career chances away to be with her. By far the stupidest mistake I would have ever made in my life, and I look back now wondering where in the hell I found the wisdom at that age to break it off and go our separate ways.
Anyway, now that I've gotten that off my chest, let's resume this thread of XN citizen's faces!